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Start Where You Are: A Guide to Compassionate Living
Posted on November 29th, 2011 No comments“To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest…
Life is glorious, but life is also wretched. It is both. Appreciating the gloriousness inspires us, encourages us, cheers us up, gives us a bigger perspective, energizes us. We feel connected. But if that’s all that’s happening, we get arrogant and start to look down on others, and there is a sense of making ourselves a big deal and being really serious about it, wanting it to be like that forever. The gloriousness becomes tinged by craving and addiction. On the other hand, wretchedness–life’s painful aspect–softens us up considerably. Knowing pain is a very important ingredient of being there for another person. When you are feeling a lot of grief, you can look right into somebody’s eyes because you feel you haven’t got anything to lose–you’re just there. The wretchedness humbles us and softens us, but if we were only wretched, we would all just go down the tubes. We’d be so depressed, discouraged, and hopeless that we wouldn’t have enough energy to eat an apple. Gloriousness and wretchedness need each other. One inspires us, the other softens us. They go together.” ~Start Where You Are: A Guide to Compassionate Living by Pema Chödrön
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Well’s Vegetarian Thanksgiving 2011
Posted on November 28th, 2011 No commentsAbout Well
Artichoke Soup With Crispy Sage Leaves
Healthy living doesn’t happen at the doctor’s office. The road to better health is paved with the small decisions we make every day. It’s about the choices we make when we buy groceries, drive our cars and hang out with our kids. Join columnist Tara Parker-Pope as she sifts through medical research and expert opinions for practical advice to help readers take control of their health and live well every day. -
The Power of the Subconscious Mind
Posted on November 27th, 2011 No commentsHow do the world’s most prolific artists, business people, thinkers and inventors get the inspiration for their ideas, creations and achievements? Was it their upbringing? Are they just really lucky? Were they blessed with a gift most of us can only dream of? Or is there something else at work?
Back in 1937, personal development pioneer Napoleon Hill published ‘Think And Grow Rich’ a book that would soon go on to become one of the most influential publications of ALL time. The book was packed with techniques and instructions on how to develop a wealth mindset, and achieve success beyond your wildest dreams. Its contents were so powerful that to this day, ‘Think And Grow Rich’ is widely regarded as a benchmark of all other books of its kind. You’ve probably read it yourself.
But there was one particular technique in the book that shocked readers. It was so controversial, in fact, that Hill himself was initially hesitant to even reveal it at all.
That technique was called…
The Invisible Counselors Visualization Exercise
In the book Hill claimed this was his ultimate technique for sourcing skills, ideas and inspiration.
This is how you do it…
Step 1:
Just before going to sleep at night, close your eyes, and see, in your imagination, a group of people seated with you around a Council Table. Remember, you can invite anyone you like to sit at the Council Table.

And when I say anyone, I mean anyone. They could be in another part of the world. They could be celebrities or famous politicians. They could even be alive or dead. Now, not only do you have the opportunity to sit among those you consider to be great, but you can actually dominate the group, by serving as the Chairman. This is what Hill did.
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Healing the Heart
Posted on November 27th, 2011 No commentsMost people are well aware of the major risk factors for coronary heart disease, but the strong influence of emotional well-being on heart disease is generally less well known.
Read Dr. David’s Simon’s article on the intimate link between the emotional and physical heart ― and learn how releasing emotional stress can protect your heart and total well-being.
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Alan Watts
Posted on November 22nd, 2011 No comments“The secret always lies in the place your never looking for.” Alan Watts
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Empathy
Posted on November 21st, 2011 No commentsEmpathy is a respectful understanding of what others are experiencing. Instead of offering empathy, we often have a strong urge to give advice or reassurance and to explain our own position or feeling. Empathy, however, calls upon us to empty our mind and listen to others with our whole being.In nonviolent communication, no matter what words others may use to express themselves, we simply listen for their observations, feelings, needs, and requests. Then we may wish to reflect back, paraphrasing what we have understood. We stay with empathy, allowing others the opportunity to fully express themselves before we turn our attention to solutions or requests for relief.
We need empathy to give empathy. When we sense ourselves being defensive or unable to empathize, we need to (A) stop, breathe, give ourselves empathy, (B) screamed nonviolently, or (C) take time out.” —Marshall Rosenberg
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Is Depression getting you down?
Posted on November 19th, 2011 No commentsIs Depression getting you down? Would you love to feel inspired by your life again?
Depression is not a disease but actually a part of the healing process. I define depression as a comparison of your current reality to a fantasy about how you wish your life would be. People with depression look for solutions on the outside but the following are the action steps I recommend to assist you to take back your control and dissolve your feelings of depression:
1. Step One: Identify what specifically you are depressed about, in other words what do you think your life should be? Or what do you think you should have or experience that would make your life somehow ‘better’? Eg You may wish you had more money, a relationship, a better body or lifestyle – whatever it is, write it down on a piece of paper.
2. Step Two: Imagine for a moment that your life is actually the way you think it should be. Now ask yourself, if it was that way, what would be the drawbacks? You will need to find between 20 and 50 drawbacks to this fantasy that you are comparing your life to. Read the rest of this entry »
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Full Awareness of the Moment
Posted on November 17th, 2011 No commentsAs you sit or walk in meditation, you ask constantly, “What is this?” Repeating this question develops concentration because it returns you to the full awareness of the moment. As soon as you become aware of being distracted by past events, anxieties about the present, or future dreams, you ask “What is this?” This way, the power of questioning dissolves distraction.
– Martine Batchelor, “A Refuge into Being”Read the entire article TRICYCLE.COM
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Seane Corn Interview
Posted on November 17th, 2011 No commentsMore About Seane CornSEANE CORN’S WEB SITE
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SEIZE THE VULNERABLE MOMENT
Posted on November 16th, 2011 No commentsWithout realizing it, we continually put up protective walls made of opinions, prejudices, and strategies, barriers that are built on a deep fear of being hurt. These walls are further fortified by emotions of all kinds: anger, craving, indifference, jealousy, and arrogance.But fortunately for us, the soft spot—our innate ability to love and to care about things—is like a crack in these walls we erect. It’s a natural opening in the barriers we create when we’re afraid. With practice we can learn to find this opening. We can learn to seize that vulnerable moment—love, gratitude, loneliness, embarrassment, inadequacy—to awaken bodhichitta.The Places That Scare You: A Guide to Fearlessness in Difficult Times, page 4We always have a choice, Pema Chödrön teaches: We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us and make us increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder. Here Pema provides the tools to deal with the problems and difficulties that life throws our way. This wisdom is always available to us, she teaches, but we usually block it with habitual patterns rooted in fear. Beyond that fear lies a state of openheartedness and tenderness. This book teaches us how to awaken our basic goodness and connect with others, to accept ourselves and others complete with faults and imperfections, and to stay in the present moment by seeing through the strategies of ego that cause us to resist life as it is.







